The first theme that I have in me, mom is shrouded in secrecy, in silence and doubts that insist on keep because “looks bad” bad talk about.
If you are pregnant, there’s no question: had sex! But there is also no doubt that still prefers to simply not talk about it.
Everything changes when a couple gets pregnant and sex is no exception. But, it doesn’t have to end! Don’t forget that behind happy parents must be a happy couple. And the sex part.
There are a lot of questions and myths around the subject sex during pregnancy, some I will try to clarify here so they don’t move a bunch of months.
Will the baby look? Feel? Get hurt?
Well, actually, he hears the sounds and movements of your daily life, whether you want your own body’s exterior, but they’re not all necessarily senses. He is surrounded by a protective pouch, the amniotic sac, and that prevents it, to see or feel, which is during penetration. In addition, the own mucosal rolhão (a physiological buffer also has protective function of barrier), located in the cervix, maintains the sterile environment around the baby, thus ejaculation cannot hurt him. So the fear that stalks the Daddies to predict with the penis in the baby’s forehead is unfounded.
Panic! It messes up while we’re having sex!!!
Yes, eventually you will be able to feel your baby move, but it won’t be by the sex itself, much less to be outraged because the parents are making love, but by increasing your heart rate, which is not at all bad. You see, to reach orgasm, the blood flow increases, then the nutritional and oxygen supply to the baby also increases. The orgasm the belly may harden, once the orgasm causes contractions of the uterus level but should not cause concern. Besides the so-called love hormone, released when takes pleasure, come to your baby, so the sense of well-being too.
The woman thinks: Oh, now I feel like more than before we got pregnant. I must be sick!
Easy to explain, look …
During pregnancy, some women may become more sensitive, there are some hormones that are produced (oestrogen and progesterone) and increases the blood supply to the genitals and breasts.
I can tell you that some women experience the your first orgasm or multiple orgasms during pregnancy. This can occur by increasing circulatory volume or why improvise, trying things and new locations in an attempt to use different techniques to have sex and with it a greater stimulation.
For those who like oral sex, vaginal secretions also change the smell and taste and flow increase.
We can see then that is normal sexual appetite increase, so do not be surprised if you feel excited more times than before, if the partner has it too-there is no no clinical peculiarity–there is no risk to your baby. Don’t be surprised, however, enjoy!
Wife thinks: Oh, my husband tries to but I really don’t want to have sex!
You can even feel a freak at times and at others, a block of ice.
Here the trick is to reach a consensus with your partner. Yes, if there’s no will, it doesn’t have to be sex. Unsurprisingly the penetration isn’t the only way to express feelings or desire. But if none of that fancy, you can take advantage of these moments to experience or focus on oral sex, other forms of sex, or whatever you see fit. Before new contexts, despite the difficulties, there are also opportunities and here you can find new erogenous zones, new forms of pleasure with maternity coats.
In these cases it is a question of communication and compromise. May just want to cuddle up with your better half and this should be respected.
He thinks: I don’t understand what has changed.
It’s not always easy for the partner, especially before there was any obvious physical signs of pregnancy, understand how your perspective on sex may change.
If there is no will – of either party-for sex, you can always try to spend quality time relaxing, on the couch, walking, talking, bathing together, etc.
Has this as a certainty, especially if is first-time mother, with the arrival of the baby there will be less time to date, so it is essential to do so before.
If the two have the will? Great!
If you don’t know what’s on your mind, nothing better than talking. Sex is a subject as important as the other and must be as talked about as the other.
Sometimes you will feel like you just relax, especially if you are tired. If, for example in their Birth preparation classes have approached this topic, will be able to clarify the partner about the hormonal changes, fears and concerns to the parental level social, economic, and how this changes the mood and the will, explain that it’s normal to be with less desire to have sex.
Partner: God! If she’s carrying my baby, I won’t have sex with him in the belly!
It won’t be just your will that changes with regard to sexual relations. The man also many changes take place. The fact that your partner to do as mom, is seen as less sexy and more “Mama”. May be alarmed by the changes of your body and can be afraid of hurting her or cause any kind of stress your child. The important thing for which there are no misunderstandings between the couple is to keep the communication. Must keep clear the fears, doubts, wills so that together reach a middle ground.
Half-term! That middle ground.
Pregnancy, especially the last few weeks (note that this woman really pregnant), it might be a good opportunity to talk about some concerns regarding sex life after birth. Some men – and women – fear resume sexual activity after delivery and are impressed with how the vagina distends after natural childbirth (hey! don’t let them see that part! At birth the man serves to support the woman, not to observe procedures doctors!). Clarify these facts can avoid unnecessary concerns.
I like vibrator and accessories! Can I continue to use?
Therefore, you can! Yes the vibrator as well as all accessories (without insurance by concerned clinical conditions), since there is no recommendation to avoid vaginal penetration and follow the instructions for use these accessories.
Coming to an end. Is the note, although, in General, vaginal sex is safe, there are situations in which this must be avoided, in particular:
- If there was occurrence of previous miscarriage or bleeding, see infeciosos signs such as itching or vaginal odor differently. Although a miscarriage is something with some probability to occur as well as bleeding there is no evidence that they are associated with sex;
- If there is dysfunction or weakness of the cervix, can cause bleeding or preterm labor;
- In case of pregnancy or premature delivery prior car (avoid sex in a more advanced gestational phase);
- If at any time you find that my water just broke, or other situation worthy of being flagged, please contact someone from the multidisciplinary team that goes with it and put them on the situation.
Average Night being pregnant…third trimester
Will a natural birth affect my future sex life?
Top Tips for a Healthy Gut
Why Teenage Pregnancy Is Dangerous
Natural Ways To Have A Baby Boy
3 Ways to Overcome Loneliness
west « sex streams
Second Month Of Pregnancy
9 steps to getting pregnant fast: photos
Sex and a Twin Pregnancy
Anatomy of a Pregnant Woman
Function: produce sex cells (gametes) for fertilization …
Get Pregnant How To Page 429
Female Pelvic Anatomy Early in First Pregnancy Medical Exhibit
How to have pregnant sex, pregnancy articles, natural …
Sex Positions That Increase Chances of Pregnancy
Test di gravidanza: tutte le domande e le risposte …
لکه بینی در ماه هشتم بارداری
Pregnant Couple Pictures
Getting A Foot Massage When Pregnant: Pros And Cons …