A pregnancy is a shift from a psychological point of view. Between doubts and this new role of MOM is also the issue of the relationship with his own mother, not always clear…
Why such ambivalence
What are peaceful or turbulent prior to pregnancy, mother-daughter relationships evolve during those 9 months. One of the main reasons: the change of status of the one and the other.
When a woman is pregnant, she is preparing to be a mother… and to take the place of his own mother somehow. Now in its place, some past and unresolved conflicts can resurface…
The girl doesn’t quite know how to behave towards his mother. Shared between two feelings, she needs her and his presence, to be pampered and reassurance. But it also has enough away to find her role as mother and be a little less her daughter.
The mother, she becomes a grandmother. A situation, again, not easy to accept and manage. It can feel like take a big hit from old and from being relegated to a place to which she was not immediately want to be! Thus, the jealousies, misunderstandings and the unspoken can appear, and this manifests as scathing reflections or almost total indifference.
To understand
In The mystery of the mothers(ed.) Brouwer Desclée), Catherine Bergeret-Amselek, famous psychoanalyst specializing in women’s issues, tackles the thorny issue of this mother-daughter relationship during pregnancy. She also speaks of crisis of ” doing ” to determine this identity crisis that can live the woman who is expecting a child.
A situation that can be resolved…
But don’t worry, even if your relationships are not the best during your pregnancy, there are chances that the birth of your baby things settle and take a much more favourable turn.
If you suffer too much from this situation during your pregnancy, you can also bring closer to your mother-in-law, a good stopgap comforting sometimes…
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